Aug. 21st 2012

Mike and I flew out to see our nephew graduate, Mikes sister’s son.   It was my first trip away from my home.   We stayed just over a week and we flew.   There was a lot of preparation.    First I needed to call Baxter , my medical supplier and let her know the amount of days and the address, of where we’d be staying.
Well Maggie and Bill live on a farm in Standard B.C. So I had to find out, where they have their farm supply’s sent to, for pick up .    I also had to give Pat, my Baxter provider, the Name, phone number and address of this company.     I needed a letter from my Kidney specialist so I could travel with all my “old school” supply’s with me on the over head storage.   In case my machine (which was being stored in the fragile compartment under the plane)  was lost or broken.    We  where not charged extra for the five over weight,  ( eight, 2000 ml.  bags ).    This put us over  for sure and  the two bags only ( each)  allowed by West Jet, put us over by one bag.   They where very understanding and are experienced in dealing with this sort of thing.    Unfortunately, even though we explained that the cycler machine was a life saving device, the baggage handlers that were working  in the fragile department that day where lousy employees.   They broke my machine even though it was in a hard case, designed by Baxter to withstand a lot of abuse.    Of course by the time I hooked up after visiting with our  family,  it was around midnight.    So I was tired and not in my familiar surroundings , trying to figure out if I had just pushed a wrong button because I was so tired .   I finally phoned the twenty-four hour  help line posted on my machine and the fellow on the other end of the line helped  me to trouble shoot what it could be.   Finally he said,” your machine is broken”!   He said that  I would have to do my old school, exchanges  until they could have a  new machine  emergency curried to me , the next day.   Which of course was a holiday weekend.    I was so stressed internally, but I didn’t show it because I knew it was late and I needed every bit of my energy to do my exchanges through out the night.    (plus I was upset with myself for not hooking up earlier, which would have meant going to bed earlier, and missing out on the evening).   I hadn’t done the twin bag exchange,  since the power outage in April.   So basically every four hours , I had to do my exchanges until the machine-made it to me.     Baxter had it to me the next morning around 11:00 a.m.    So I only had to do three exchanges in  total.   We were all very impressed and relieved  because I only had a two-day supplies of the  twin bags.    Baxter is an amazing company!    I had felt so guilty because those machines are expensive!    The fellow reminded me that patients fly  a lot farther than Standard , all the time and usually the machines are fine.   He said,” this had nothing to do with you, it’s the air lines fault”.  So on the way back we explained what we had been put through , very calmly and put in a complaint with  the girl who was checking our tickets and bags.   She  was an amazing, professional and caring person and employee.   She apologized and  called some one down from the fragile department to transport the machine personally,  so as to avoid the conveyor belt and to her credit and to  West Jet, my new machine-made it home safe!   We had a fantastic time and I  don’t regret going to see Maggie, Bill and Abe.   We enjoy their company and miss them in our regular day-to-day lives !    I got to do things I really love to do!    Being on a farm,  I am in my element.    At the risk of sounding cocky,  I usually handle, vulnerability, with not too much trouble but this time was quite difficult for me.   Being  that far away  from my family and having a life threatening  condition, unnerved me some.   I don’t like to admit this, yet I know I need to.   I guess it  is part and parcel of  having a life threatening disease .    It always amazes me how much better writing about my experiences as apposed to talking about them can make me feel.   It upsets me to think that I would probably not travel far again until after my Kidney Transplant.

 

4 Responses to Aug. 21st 2012

  1. Glad you enjoyed your visit even though you had a few hurdles to jump over Angie. Focus on the positives to keep you less stressed and remember it all builds character and keeps you strong. You are a strong individual to begin with so everything else is a bonus added to a very strong core. Just remember that you’ve always managed to get through the tough times before and you’ll continue to get through them now even without your families presence. As they say when the going gets tough the tough get going! Your family is always with you in spirit no matter where you go and we’re just a phone call or blog post away for support. Love you. xoxoxo

  2. xoxo Thanx Brother. Drive safe!!

  3. I second that Brother 😉

    Love you Ang.
    xoxox

  4. I second that Bro, 😉
    Love you Ang, sorry for your ordeal.
    xoxoxo

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